While it’s human nature to resist change, change is in fact a part of everyday life. Marriages like most other things in life change, grow and evolve over time. That means the relationship you have with your spouse today is different than it was last year. Ideally, your marriage relationship will get better over time.However, that’s not always what happens.Marriage problems can create stress and turmoil that drive the two of you apart and threaten to destroy your relationship.
Hurt, anger and resentment build when you ignore the signs of problems in your marriage.Even so, research shows that most couples wait six years from the first signs of problems before they try to find help. During those years the problems become progressively worse.If you are in an unhappy marriage, struggling with problems in your marriage or even on the borderline of divorce, you may be feel confused about what you need to do.Every day there are people who give up on their marriages instead of trying to find the help needed to solve their problems.There are also those people who know they have marriage problems, but believe that their marriage is not in danger of failing until their spouse gives them the wake-up call by asking for a divorce.
It doesn’t matter whether you are almost ready to give up or whether your spouse is the one who is ready to give up.The good news is that just as your marriage evolved into what it is today, it can also evolve into a happy, healthy solid relationship once again.
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